So far, I have not taken any stats on which way the majority of my clients orgasm for me, but if I had to place a bet, it is probably orally. This may also be due to the fact that most cocks have an aversion to that latex wrapper. 🙂

What’s your favourite way to cum, or do you have one? Have you ever faked an orgasm? Hmmm questions for my next survey maybe! LOL

The art of preforming a mind blowing BJ is something I enjoy practicing and practicing over and over again. Occasionally I have been asked to do a covered BJ, which is most disgusting! And I have no idea what I am doing. I can tell you, I won’t be doing it again but also they won’t be getting a BJ period.

I understand that guys are very concerned about disease as we all should be, however, if you are that concerned you have no business seeing any Escort in my view. It always makes me wonder, maybe they have something they don’t want to give to me??

4.5 years of using condoms for intercourse and doing bbbj, I have never had a single thing. That tells me something!

Anyway, on to more interesting stuff like your orgasm! Some clients are extremely helpful in assisting me to figure out what works for them. I love the feedback whether they tell me, or show me in some way. I don’t want to just do it “my way”, I want to do it in a way that feels the ultimate best for you!

  • If a man does not like a hand used – many will gently pull my had away
  • If my pace is to slow, some will use gentle pressure on my shoulder or head to increase the tempo
  • When I am really lucky, someone will say a little harder & faster, or softer and slower 🙂  Otherwise I am likely to ask.
I don’t know where we get this fear of giving feedback comes from other than an experience of having someone react badly I suppose. I am obviously guilty of this too if you read my other blog about Orgasms – “Hers”.

Note: Please let me know before you cum if your cock is SUPER sensitive and I will finish off in a way that will not be irritating.


Did you know having orgasms are healthy for you? Of course you did!! You might find this article interesting The Best Reason to Have Sex, I did and I’m glad I am playing a role in keeping you healthy & happy! 🙂


Each cock is so unique! I cannot tell by looking at it, what it likes. Wow, that would be cool if I could! I tend to start slow and very gentle, teasing it a lot with licks and kisses to get it wet. Then I try to take cues such as breath, soft moans or groans, or hip movement to assess whether or not I am doing the right thing.

I have noticed one thing though, that larger thicker cocks tend (but not always) to take longer to cum. I don’t know if it is because they are less sensitive (obviously not all) or what. It doesn’t seem to matter whether it is oral or intercourse, it just seems like more stimulation is generally required.

Falling into a routine
Something else I have noticed, is that many (not all) men have a preferred way of cumming. Some prefer to cum from intercourse, others prefer the intensity of an oral orgasm. Others want to be standing up, or it could be finishing with a few strokes from their own hand to get them over the top.

I think this comes from laying down patterns in our brain. What get’s repeated gets routinized. This can happen with single men when they are most frequently masturbating to get their releases. Sitting in a chair, standing or laying down. When these are repeated frequently, your body starts to associate the position with the orgasm. My suggestion is to shake it up a bit, standing once, laying down another time, try squatting for fun! LOL

It also happens to married men too! You and your wife get into this little routine of first we do this, then we do that, then we finish with this. Sound familiar? You come and see me and want to shake it up but you find when you are wanting to wrap things up, we wind up right back in that familiar position. Please let me know if I am wrong on this one. My information is from observation not having actual discussions around it to be honest.

Our brains get these patterns made for all kinds of things. The thoughts we have, the way we react to certain situations, to what we believe all is a form of patterning. The good news is that it can be changed. There is a fascinating book I pointed out on my Books of Interest page called The Brain That Changes Itself. Check it out if you are interested in learning more about it. 


Erectile Issues
Something I want to mention and that you may not know, is that you do not need to have a fully erect penis to have an orgasm. Just a talented gal. 🙂 For a variety of reasons (not only age related) I have had a number of clients who are unable to hold a full erection for any length of time, and yet they are still able to have powerful orgasms with or without ejaculation. I think that is great news!

However, if you are concerned that you may be starting to have some issues, such as not waking up in the morning with a hard on anymore, or your penis doesn’t stay hard for the duration of play, or your penis is simply not as hard as it used to be, it could be as simple as not having enough Zinc in your diet! 

Check this out and see if it’s worth increasing your Zinc. 10 Powerful Zinc Benefits. You will be glad you did. 

Best types of Zinc are:

  • zinc citrate
  • zinc acetate
  • zinc picolinate

Note: Do not take oral zinc with foods that deter absorption like bran, protein, coffee, phytates, phosphorus or calcium.